Chapter 2328: 【2328】Don't blame
The mother of the child was in a hurry to say something when the doctor checked and forgot to answer the question according to the doctor's question. I have seen this phenomenon before. Xie Wanying drew the attention of the child's mother back and asked again: "When did he start vomiting?"
The timing of the onset of the child is very important.
The child's mother tried her best to remember. When it comes to children spitting up milk, many children have had it since childhood, which led to some parents not paying attention to the abnormality at first. It wasn't until the child vomited more and more that he didn't know it was a big deal.
"Maybe it was yesterday, or this morning?" The child's mother dawdled and gave an ambiguous answer.
This doctor has already known this, and the information provided by the child's parents may be biased. You can't really blame the parents. For example, Senior Sister Li said that she was a fool for three years. It's not easy for a mother, and it's not easy after giving birth to a baby in October. Children cry when they are hungry, cry when they are uneasy, day and night, and adults cannot sleep well at night. This mother is lucky to not suffer from postpartum depression.
A good doctor should consider the problem from the parents' point of view, rather than blaming the parents when a problem occurs. This is what Xie Wanying heard from her mother. Sun Rongfang had this insight because she was moved to see the doctors in the capital treat her sick son carefully after she came to the capital.
"It's okay." Xie Wanying first comforted the parents and said.
The child's mother wiped the sweat from her forehead and asked her, "Is it serious, doctor?"
Parents who urgently send their children to the hospital usually do not take it easy, that is, their minds are a little unclear about the actual situation. The fact is that you can see that something is wrong with your child, and you must be prepared in your heart.
The doctor can only try not to stimulate the parents as much as possible. Otherwise, the parents may collapse first.
A few months old child, if it is gone, the child's mother will collapse. The child was born after ten months of hard work.
Worse yet, the younger the child, the worse the urgency. Look, nurses take children directly to surgery instead of internal medicine. It is conceivable that the severity of vomiting in an infant is not the same as that in adults.
Adult vomiting, if there is no other conditions such as shock, the triage nurse may first think that it is gastroenteritis and assign it to the internal medicine department. If the child vomits, it is common clinically that the child vomits and is sent to the doctor, which is a surgical emergency.
The main reason is that the child feels that he is unable to express himself for help, and it is usually too late when the adult realizes it.
"Are you crying?" the doctor asked the family again.
"Crying, he often cries. Since he was born, he can cry several times every night, and we all say he is like a crybaby." The child's mother said it was helpless, and her son's cry-loving temperament did not know who inherited it.
Crying is a significant signal for children to express their physical abnormalities. But listen and see, children have different personalities, some children cry, and the information provided by parents is zero again. Once again, it proved that pediatrics is a well-known name for mute.
For a crying child, the doctor asks the parents in another way: "When did he stop crying?"
A crying child suddenly becomes quiet, which is abnormal. Parents know this, and the child's mother remembered and said: "Just this morning, starting this morning, he seems to be no longer noisy. We felt that something was wrong with him, so we sent him to the hospital."
(end of this chapter)